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Q and A
Jan. 19th, 2004 @ 08:10 am
Hypothetical question, say you meet someone with a great personality and they aren't hot or what you would normally go for but they aren't bad looking and they seem very interested in you. Should you just say well I want both aspects or should you maybe go for something past friendship down the line (if they aren't gorgeous you would want to make sure that personality was really there).
That is how it was with me and Chase when we starting dating. I would never reject someone because of looks unless they were just replusive. I'll not sure what your asking but I'd definately pursue a relationship.
I agree with Anna. Give it a chance...you never know, you may even surprise yourself.
If it were me, I wouldn't jump into a serious relationship right away. I would allow a great friendship to build first. Once that trust is there, that strong bond, then the person will become so much more attractive---they will be beautiful to you. That's...my experience anyway. Unless of course, they *are* completely repulsive, then there isn't much you can do...and a lot of the time, they are. ;)
That's good advice. The beauty is revealed once you let misconceptions go.
i think you should be friends for a while.. and see if you grow sort of... accustomed to the way they look. know what i mean?
i say.. go for it. a relationship shouldnt be based on looks.. and if they're decent.. and they've got this awesome personality.. later on, you'll find them beautiful on the outside too...
and i'm not completely bullshitting this.. cause my boyfriend now.. of a year.. i wasnt always physically attracted to him.. but we completely clicked.. why would i let that go? chu know? .. yes. you know =D
Well, I love that you all want to see into people and don't want to judge first off. you are lovely people.
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